September Eleventh

A message from a reader:

Dear Rick & USA,

Our thoughts are totally with the American People at present, especially those who have been personally touched by these tragic events.

I was with a disabled client at the time that the news was unfolding and even though her needs are complex, we could not concentrate on the job in hand. As she rightly said "It'll be the same as when Kennedy died, we will all remember what we were doing on this day, forever."

These events have changed the World forever and we now start a new era.

Please remember that we are with you because this was not only aimed at USA but at all of Western Society in general.

Yours,

Karen Davies. UK


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